Have you decided to let your natural gray hair grow out? Do you want to stop coloring your hair and embrace your grays? Unless you never dyed your hair in your life and/or your gray hair came in slowly over the span of years, you will have to deal with some type of transition. It isn’t always graceful and that’s why I asked some specialists who have professional advice for us who are thinking at letting our beautiful grays see the light of day.
After years of thinking about it, I finally decided to let my gray hair grow in. I did some research and chose to ease the transition with a mix of highlights and lowlights (more on that later in the article), and I haven’t looked back since.
Tips and Tricks to Transition Colored Hair to Gray
Here are some tips and some useful advice from the pros themselves on how to do this transition successfully with confidence and as subtly as possible.
Watson Anthony is a professional hairdresser and the editor-in-chief for Hairstyle Camp. He shares with us his expert insight on how to transition from colored hair to gray hair.
Try Fun Updos
Watson states that the beginning phases of growing out your gray hair can be tough for some people as they are trying to embrace their natural color. “Learning how to create fun up-dos can help to make your gray hair feel more incorporated into your colored hair, and can also help to make you feel confident.”
Read 10 STYLISH UPDOS FOR WOMEN OVER 60.
Lowlights and Highlights
He recommends that, if you want to take this journey more slowly, you ask your hairdresser for some lowlights and highlights that can help to soften the transition of your colored hair to gray. “This can help when trying to grow it out, as it will be less of a contrast.”
Go for a Shorter Hairstyle
Cutting off a lot of your hair can help to make going gray a bit easier, Anthony says. “Opting for a shorter hairdo will help to make the contrast between your gray and colored hair less drastic, and it also helps to get to your goal faster of having all gray hair.”
Read WHAT ARE THE BEST SHORT HAIRSTYLES FOR OLDER WOMEN? (VIDEO)
Take Care of Your Hair
Watson Anthony reminds us that our hair still needs to be cared for during the transition to gray hair. “You want to use products that will help to keep your hair nourished and avoid constant use of hot styling tools. Look for ingredients with shea butter or argan oil to keep your hair shiny and healthy.”
Read HOW TO IMPROVE THINNING OR GRAYING HAIR: 10 PRACTICAL TIPS FOR WOMEN OVER 60.
According to hair professionals who follow trends and innovations, the best way to go gray is by matching your colored hair to your natural gray in a type of gradient. It also warrants fast results.
What Products Help During the Transition?
Transitioning from dyed hair to natural gray isn’t just about patience; it’s also about smart care. As your gray grows in, you might notice changes in texture, shine, or tone. Dyed ends may turn brassy or dry, while your new silvery roots might feel softer or more wiry. The right products can make a big difference, helping your hair look and feel better throughout the process.
Purple Shampoo and Conditioner
One of the biggest challenges during the transition is yellowing or brassy tones. These can happen due to leftover dye, sun exposure, or even hard water. Purple shampoos and conditioners use violet pigments to cancel out those yellow hues and keep both gray and highlighted hair looking cool-toned and fresh.
Read more: 9 Best Purple Shampoos for Grey and Silver Hair
Gloss Treatments or Color-Depositing Conditioners
These are great for boosting shine and blending the line between colored and gray hair. A clear gloss can revive tired-looking dyed hair, while a silver or violet-toned gloss adds a soft shimmer and cools down any warm undertones. Demi-permanent options are gentle and fade gradually.
Look for products labeled “gloss” or “toning treatment” with violet or blue undertones to enhance silver hues. I use L’Oreal Paris Le Color Gloss One Step In-Shower Toning Hair Gloss, and I like the results a lot.
Deep Conditioners and Hair Masks
Gray hair tends to be drier and more porous, especially during the grow-out phase when ends have been color-treated or heat-styled. Using a weekly deep conditioner or mask helps improve elasticity, reduce frizz, and add smoothness. Shea butter, argan oil, and coconut oil are excellent ingredients to look for.
Tip: Apply a mask once a week and use a wide-tooth comb in the shower to help distribute it evenly.
Root Touch-Up Powders, Sprays, or Sticks
If you’re not ready to fully commit to visible roots, or you have a special event, temporary root concealers can be a lifesaver. These come in powders, sprays, or crayon-like sticks and can be brushed or dabbed onto your roots to match your dyed hair, giving a more blended appearance. They wash out with shampoo and are great for those in-between stages.
Leave-In Conditioners with UV Protection
Sun exposure can turn gray hair yellow or dry it out even more. A lightweight leave-in conditioner with UV protection helps defend against damage and keeps hair soft and manageable.
Bonus: These also help control flyaways and frizz, which can be common with changing hair textures.
Transitioning hair may need a little extra love, but the good news is that with the right products, it’s easier to feel polished and confident at every stage.
How to Stay Confident During the Awkward Stages
Let’s face it, transitioning to gray hair isn’t always a graceful process. Those early months of uneven roots, color bands, or faded ends can feel frustrating and, at times, disheartening. Many women say this is the hardest part of going gray, not the gray hair itself, but the in-between. Here are some gentle, practical ways to feel confident and beautiful as you move through it.
Take More Photos (Even When You Don’t Want To)
Progress can feel slow, especially when you’re seeing yourself every day in the mirror. Taking regular photos, even weekly selfies, can help you track the changes more clearly. You might be surprised how much progress you’ve made in just a few months. These photos also serve as a visual reminder of your commitment, growth, and how far you’ve come.
Play with Makeup or Colorful Accessories
When your hair feels “off,” it’s the perfect excuse to experiment with bold lipstick, colorful scarves, or a fresh pair of earrings. A pop of color near your face can brighten your look and shift the focus away from your roots. Some women find that switching to cooler-toned makeup complements their incoming silver strands beautifully.
Read more: How to Apply Makeup for Grey Hair (Video).
Revisit Your Wardrobe
As your hair color changes, you may notice that certain shades no longer feel as flattering. This can be a good time to reassess your wardrobe. Try incorporating jewel tones, soft blues, or crisp whites, colors that tend to enhance natural gray and silver hair. A stylish outfit that makes you feel put together can instantly boost your confidence.
Join Supportive Communities
You’re not alone. Thousands of women are documenting their transition to gray hair online, offering tips, support, and solidarity.
Instagram: @grombre – a popular account showing real women growing out their gray hair.
Facebook Groups: Going Grey Gracefully, for example.
YouTube Channels: Many women have vlogged their entire journey, sharing monthly updates, product reviews, and personal reflections; one such channel is SparklingSilvers.
Just knowing that others have faced the same awkward growth phase and have emerged on the other side glowing can be incredibly reassuring.
Celebrate the Long-Term Payoff
Remind yourself what you’re gaining. No more salon appointments every four weeks. No more chemical smells, scalp sensitivity, or dye damage. What you’re working toward is low-maintenance, authentic hair that reflects who you are now. And it’s freeing. The in-between phase is temporary; your healthier, natural hair is waiting on the other side.
Give Yourself Permission to Have Mixed Feelings
It’s okay to have days when you love your silver roots and days when you want to run back to the colorist. Let go of the pressure to feel empowered 100% of the time. Confidence isn’t about never wavering; it’s about continuing anyway, even when it feels uncertain.
Read more: Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Grey Hair (#4 is Harder Than it Sounds!).
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Are you thinking of growing out your beautiful gray hair? Have you done it and do you have any advice for our readers? What is your experience with transitioning from colored hair to gray hair? Tell us about it in the comments below.
